Where do I begin...

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I decided to start this blog in hopes that I can reach out to anyone who has endured the pains I've had regarding divorce or separation. 

There my be many woman and men going through the divorce process and not knowing how to climb out of that depression. I feel as

though I'm trapped in a time loop and cannot move forward and to be completely honest...I am at a complete loss.  I have always had to be the strong one for everyone. The one who kept the poker face so as to let everyone know everything was going to be okay.  

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Well let me tell you thats not happening this time. The way my ex husband left this time around

(he's left our home a total of 4 times in 22 years)

in the dead of night. Without saying goodbye to our children or sitting down to have a conversation with us on why he was

leaving us was/is unforgivable.

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